Senior members of Parliament – on both sides – tell me that politics is not what it used to be. It has become characterised by bitterness, outright hostility, if not hatred, and by the vilification of MPs. It has gone to hell, say some.
I left Parliament ten years ago to become a diplomat at the invitation of President Mbeki and his minister of Foreign Affairs, Nkosazana Dlamini Zuma. I was the first DA MP to be made an ambassador since 1994. It was agreed and accepted that I would remain a loyal member of the DA and be trusted by the ANC government to serve South Africa. This was followed a year or two later by three other DA members: Tony Leon, Sandra Botha and Sheila Camerer. Such an appointment is very unlikely today because the civility and the mutual respect of former times has largely disappeared.
After 1994, President Nelson Mandela set the tone and leaders like FW de Klerk, Tony Leon, Prince Mangosuthu Buthelezi, General Constand Viljoen, and Reverend Kenneth Meshoe all treated each other – and the Speaker -- with courtesy and mutual respect. That example was followed by the Whips and naturally, by the ordinary MPs. Debate was extremely robust; make no mistake about that, but opponents did not form the impression that one hated them. We differed as South Africans who all wanted the best for our country.
Having served in the Transvaal Provincial Council for 16 years, the Benoni Town Council for 5 years and Parliament for 17 years, I recall only one violent occurrence in any of them in all that time. In a sensational development in parliament in 1998 Johnny de Lange of the ANC and Manie Schoeman of the National Party punched each other; both were suspended from parliament as a punishment. Those certainly were different days. I recall how mortified de Lange was at the time – he felt his career might be harmed by this unprecedented violence in parliament. He need not have worried – he went on in later years to become the deputy minister of Justice.
In 2014, IOL reported an interview with Kenneth Bange, a man who started out as a parliamentary messenger but was now much more senior. He reminisced about what the Argus described as “pivotal, touching and heated moments.” He went on to say, “What people don’t know is that the MPs are highly professional. Opposition MPs don’t hate each other. They have friendly and cordial relationships outside this room.” While that might have been the case and is still so to an extent today, my experience is that there is no love lost between the parties.
Not all MPs are yahoos who do not know how to behave, but many of them carry on like thugs who hate those who differ from them, attempting to smother all other opinions, displaying intolerance that does no credit to Parliament. Some television viewers are amused but decent South Africans witnessing bad behaviour simply shake their heads in despair.