The enduring memory of the 2010 World Cup will not be the stadiums, the fan parks or even the football. It will be how all South Africans joined hands and got behind our team, Bafana Bafana. It was our country's most unifying moment since Nelson Mandela wore Francois Pienaar's number 6 jersey at the 1995 Rugby World Cup.
These moments are quantum leaps for racial reconciliation. They give us hope that the vision of a rainbow nation is not a mirage, but rooted in reality. They are to be cherished and, hopefully, repeated until they become the norm in our society.
But every so often things happen that take us a step backwards. In 2005, it was the Vice-Chancellor of the University of KwaZulu-Natal, referring to white men as "baboons". In 2008, it was the humiliation of black workers at the hands of four students from the Reitz hostel at the University of the Free State. Last year, it was Steve Hofmeyr's racist generalisations about black South Africans.
Sometimes we manage to turn such threats into opportunities. The extraordinary forgiveness shown by the victims of the ‘Reitz Four' this week is an example. At a reconciliatory meeting between the former students and university employees, one of the boys said to the women: "We are so sorry...we wish we could have talked much earlier." One of the women replied: "You are still our children, and we love you."
This moving account, told by Free State Vice-Chancellor Jonathan Jansen, demonstrates a unique South African character trait: the ability to seek forgiveness - and to forgive. Following the lead of Nelson Mandela and Archbishop Desmond Tutu, such South Africans are the torchbearers for reconciliation and non-racialism in our society.
And the fact is that most South Africans reject racism in all its forms. They want to move forward towards a non-racial future that offers real opportunities to all, not remain trapped in a racially divided past.
This is the promise of our Constitution. It was not foisted on anyone. It was the product of long and sensible negotiations, and is the foundation on which we must achieve a better life for all.
It is deeply unfortunate that many politicians in the ruling party and the highest echelons of government continue to play the divide-and-rule politics of apartheid that undermine the letter and spirit of the Constitution.
Just like the National Party did under apartheid, with a "whites only" electorate, the ANC benefits from keeping South Africans divided along racial lines. By mobilising its followers on the basis of race, the ANC believes it can secure its majority "until Jesus comes". The ANC's approach is insulting and patronising to all South Africans, including the ANC's own voters, most of whom believe in the Freedom Charter's declaration that "South Africa belongs to all who live in it". This phrase informs the letter and spirit of the Constitution and we strongly endorse it.
Recent events indicate that the ANC will again mobilise voters on the basis of race in the run-up to the May 18 election. It started with Higher Education Minister Blade Nzimande's playing of the race card in an attempt to shut down debate in Parliament a few weeks ago. He said:
If the matric results are bad, this is taken as a proof that this government of "darkies" is incapable. If the matric pass rate goes up, it means the results have been manipulated by these "darkies".
When Nzimande was challenged by DA MP Lindiwe Mazibuko he said that her opinion didn't count because she did not "grow up in the townships."
Last Sunday, it was former ANC spokesperson Kuli Roberts' column in the Sunday World newspaper that drove a racial wedge. I won't repeat her crude generalisations about coloured South African women. Suffice to say it was significant that, while most people condemned her racist rant, the ANC remained silent.