WHOSE WAY - WHOSE LAWS - WHOSE IDENTITY?
President Zuma's recent comments in the House of Traditional Leaders on the need ‘to solve African problems in the African way" and his rejection of the "white man's way" go to the heart of many of the misunderstandings that continue to divide our society.
The President said that black South Africans should not "be influenced by other cultures and try to think that we have the wrong values". He observed that lawyers dealt with cold facts but "what they don't tell you is that these cold facts deal with warm bodies".
President Zuma urged the House of Traditional Leaders to "solve African problems the African way - not the white man's way". He added that some Africans "who become too clever" were "most eloquent in criticising themselves about their own traditions". He called on the House of Traditional Leaders to "to help all of us" to avoid a situation where "we do not understand who we are... because if we are not an African, we cannot be a white, then what are you? You don't know. You cannot understand. How then can you grow children? And then the nation cannot understand who this nation is".
President Zuma concluded by saying that "freedom gave us the opportunity to redefine ourselves as to who we are. We are Africans and we cannot change into something else. Even if I live in the highest building ... I am an African."
The President's remarks dealt with the struggle that many black South Africans experience between their African identities and the powerful influence of western culture. Several years ago, I had the privilege of attending the fifth wedding of King Goodwill Zwelithini. The ceremony, which lasted over five hours in the stadium at Ulundi, began when the bride arrived in a late model Rolls-Royce dressed resplendently in a voluminous white lace wedding gown. The King looked most elegant in his morning coat and top hat - as though he had just slipped out of the royal box at Ascot. The couple were then married in a Christian ceremony - despite the fact that the King already had four previous wives.