Daily Sun (February 27 2014) - THE BEN 10 didn't mind when his sugar mama cheated on her husband with him.
But then he found out that she was also cheating on him with another Ben 10 . . .
AND THAT DROVE HIM CRAZY!
Thirty-year-old Sizwe Hlope of Palm Ridge on the East Rand, Ekurhuleni told Daily Sun his ex-sugar mama was involved with other men even when they were lovers.
"I started dating Thoko in 2009 and we were happy," he said.
He said he gave up his previous relationships with other lovers during the five years he was with Thoko.
"But then I lost my job and that's when the fighting started," said Sizwe.
"She started controlling me and we constantly had fights about money and her cheating.
"But every time I tried to end things she pleaded with me not to leave her," he said.
"I once found her being very cosy with her other boyfriend, who I knew only as Mandla."
He showed Daily Sun an SMS he claims came from Thoko.
It read: "Uzonya nja hambu uyathatha izidwedwe zakho uhluwe yi rent" which means: "Go die, you dog! Go take your clothes. You can't afford to pay rent."
But Thoko Mathebula (42), Sizwe's ex, said Sizwe is just trying to ruin her reputation. She showed Daily Sun a court order with masking tape around the edges.
"I had a court order against him, but he taped it to a meter box in the street for everyone to see and wrote ‘Ex Ben 10' on it," she said.
"He's just bitter that things didn't work out between us. I did everything for him but now he's out to destroy my life because I refused to pay his rent!"
She said Sizwe even phoned her husband.
"Clearly he is not normal in the head. He was just trying to embarrass me more than he already has," said Thoko.
"I opened a case of intimidation against him because he was abusive towards me."
Sizwe said when he sees Thoko at the places they used to go to together she tries to make him jealous with other men.
"I dumped her in December last year because I realised our relationship wasn't going anywhere and because she was married," said Sizwe.
He said she threatens to send him to jail.
"She came to the room I was renting last year and broke down my door. She took my clothes, saying it was out of spite," said Sizwe.
"This woman is making my life a living hell!"
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