Bafana Bafana Captain, Senzo Miyewa, died a horrible death in more ways than one. It is one thing to be brutally gunned down; it is another, to meet your maker in your mistress' house. This is every joller's fear. If Senzo could have chosen, he would not have wanted to die this way, given his star status.
I would hazard a guess that this much revered soccer captain, hardly anticipating such a vicious end to his life, was clearly deft at playing the field. And as has become customary in South Africa, sports heroes actually begin to believe that as "celebrities," they can have it all - wine, women, and song - regardless of the consequences of their adulterous liaisons. Attracted to actor, singer and mover of men, Kelly Khumalo, he knew he could have her, in his position as captain, and pursued her until he hit the jackpot.
Khumalo clearly has a penchant for famous men, having been had by a few, prior to hitching her wagon to bad boy hip-hop singer Molemo "Jub Jub" Maarohanye, who now languishes in jail, with all his money. Jub Jub, like Senzo, knew, given his success, that he could "have her".
Today, Kelly, who allegedly assaulted Miyewa's wife in a confrontation, has to care for her and the drag racer's child, as well as her and Senzo's, as a single parent who will find the memory of her lovers painfully etched into the faces of both these children every day. Although Meyiwa apologised for two-timing, he continued the relationship causing his wife and mother of his other children untold stress.
The consequences of his adultery seemed disastrous for both families who now fight over his belongings. What a sordid end to a magnificent soccer legacy. His parents clearly did not approve of their son's behaviour given his father's utterances in the media after his death. Reminiscent of that vile television series, Footballers' Wives, our soccer stars are giving substance to this soap opera by confirming every stereotype in the book.
Described on the internet as the "new rock ‘n roll", the Footballer's Wives set the precedent for our impressionable rising stars: "They've got the designer gear, the palatial homes, the flash cars, the platinum credit cards, and the handsome superstar husbands. But underneath it all they are ordinary women, struggling to keep their marriages intact while their husbands dazzle the crowds on the pitch, and the girls in the nightclubs..."