During the bush war two of our best friends were teaching at a mission station in the Eastern Highlands. They had given up a great deal to come out to teach at the High School and knew they were coming to a country at war with itsel
One evening a group of armed men arrived and the teaching staff were rounded up and beaten to death. Our friends had a baby with them and she was also brutally killed. The following morning I had to go through to a hostel for boarders in Harare and tell the two other children - both young teenagers, that their parents had been murdered. It was the toughest assignment I have ever had to handle.
On the hillside overlooking the site of the massacre is a small monument placed there by local Christians - it simply says, 'Lord, we do not understand, but we trust you.'
On Friday night, after a tough day in the new government I wrapped up what I had to do and headed home. At six in the evening I was called to be told that Morgan and his wife Susan had been in an accident and were on their way back to Harare. We put things in motion, two ambulances were sent out on the road to meet them and the hospital put on standby and an air ambulance prepared at the airport.
At seven we knew Susan had died and Morgan was admitted to the hospital with minor injuries. I have known and worked with many couples in my life, but few have had the kind of relationship that existed between Morgan and his wife of 31 years. She was a striking woman, deeply religious and a devoted mother. The real affection between the two was clearly evident. Although she played a low key role in her husband's political life, she was his anchor. She ran a great home, was always welcoming and accepted that on any day she might be called upon to feed drivers, security staff and visitors - by the dozen.
One of my colleagues said to me yesterday that she never forgot that he could only drink a diet coke. She always produced one for him when he was at the house. We always thought she would make a superb First Lady of Zimbabwe. All of us are still stunned by the knowledge that she has died and we all feel something of the loss and pain that Morgan must feel at this time.