South Africans are odd and interesting; we alternate between fits of national euphoria and depression, sometimes quite out of proportion to the cause. We invest our country with an importance and significance in the world that is really not justified.
However, it is a fact that the world has become so accessible that what happens here and in other countries, especially in the West, is amazingly widely known almost everywhere. What happens in South Africa is known and followed by informed people around the world.
This was brought home to me again on board the luxurious Queen Mary 2, the largest Trans-Atlantic liner ever built. These are older, well-heeled people, more than two thousand of them, many of whom are educated, travelled and sophisticated. As a guest lecturer on world affairs I have had audiences of around 500 at my five talks and I have spent many hours before and afterwards talking to passengers about South Africa. The sympathy and interest in South Africa, the knowledge about recent political developments, and the concern about our deterioration over the past few years has been an eye-opener.
Many people care about our country, wishing us well, but fear we are in the process of blowing it. Of course, some former South Africans left because they did not like the prospects for the future. Without wishing us harm, they have a vested interest in a deteriorating South Africa; it affirms that they were right to leave when they did. They are in the minority, however, and almost everyone I met cared about us and hoped that we would succeed as a country.
During my years as a diplomat, representing South Africa in Thailand and other countries in South East Asia, I was often struck by the respect that our country enjoyed as a place that had left behind a dark past, miraculously escaping a bloody race war, and emerged as a modern constitutional democracy. On innumerable occasions I was asked to share with foreign political leaders, some of them very significant ones, how we had managed it.
Each time, whether in private conversation or on radio, television, at universities or at the local equivalent of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission, I stressed that it was only through the hearts of people that real change could come. I always pointed out that we as a complex society with many languages, cultures, colours and religions had negotiated a new beginning over several years before finding each other. Even then, it took more years before our final constitution in 1996.